Family has back-to-back day of grief, day of joy

By BOB BAIRD

(Original publication: September 15, 2002)

The balance in life sometimes hides in its contrasts, in the middle ground between emotional extremes, between despair and hope, pain and pleasure, sadness and joy.

On the first 9/11, we suffered four moments when mankind let go primal screams of pain. One year later, we marked the times